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Not That Bleary Eyed [02 Jun 2009|10:33am]
I'm still working at ArtRock, and have cornered myself into the back of the warehouse. Joe and Phil have monopolized the the front, and I'm beginning to feel like that annoying swingline stapler guy from Office Space. I kind of like it back here. I can run the operation and I don't have to face the public.

Anyway, I'm still counting calories, but am not as obsessed with food as I have been for the past 4 months, so I might start writing in here again. I've been writing on my blog at livestrong.com or blogging in different groups. I didn't want to inundate my insane journal with food obsessions and whatnot.

Anyway, looking for Youtube stuff to watch while I update the artrock website.
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I don't Want To Hear a Sad Song [11 May 2009|09:38am]
Even if the lyrics sing the truth
Even if the rhythm matches my beating heart
Even if the tune bellows out my woeful cry
I don't want to hear a sad song.

I want to hear something better, a
"Yes, definitely," just for once
with a wink, a hug, and gentle touch.

Wasn't he green? That jewel rested
atop my palm
but it did not belong to me
but to a sparkling rainbow of memory.
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Here's Something [06 May 2009|10:54am]
I knew him from the kitchen. He was always in there when I was. I'd make my healthy pancakes, and he would be making polenta. A lot of that man reminded me of me, when I first moved to the Balmoral. He had a 79 cent pan, a box of cornmeal, and water from the tap. He'd add a little sliced pepper to his meal, and I could tell, that was all he had in his tiny spit-corner room. He was a large man, not fat, just large--- over six feet tall, over 200 pounds, beefy. He had a face and beared like a tired worn out Santa-- one who was tired of checking up on good little boys and girls. He was from another country-- Something like Checklosovakia, and his voice was buttery and masculine-- thick accented.

And he annoyed people. I remember how he'd look at me weighing my food and point out to everybody in the hotel "She on a diet, eat-a only healthy. She-a trying to be skinny." And he was right. Sooo right. He always thought he knew how many calories my meals were. He'd see me making up a batch of shiratake noodles and he'd say, "That's about One-Hundered-And-Fifty calories," he'd state. "Actually, there's no calories--" And he'd cut me off right away. "Everything has calories. Even-a water have one calorie."

And he was analyzing all my food like this. But he would catch me in my vulnerabl moments. He caught me in the solitary quiet of the afternoon-- when most of the inhabitants of the Balmoral were out and about or taking their afternoon naps. At the time where there's no sun shining in the kitchen, and its only half-lit-- giving the granite countertops and steel-griddles and linoleum floors a cold metallic sheen. When you can hear the spatula scraping against the heated pan, and my meal portions would be so small. He would catch me in those moments when I would be weighing a tomato-- to make sure it was exactly 25 calories and trying to stuff those 25 calories into a 40 calorie slice of tortilla. And he would see me, with an ability to look into me and pinpoint the exactitude of loneliness and determination, he would give off a little snort then walk away... leaving me in that quiet solitary state.

One time, I made chicken soup for my boyfriend. This Check man entered the kitchen with a needle and some tattered thread. "I-a can't see properly, can you help me,"

I'm sure my boyfriend was a little more than annoyed, but I saw that he was trying to stitch up his best pants. I had to fight the urge to offer to do it for him, but I have learned from this city its best not to be nice to strangers-- but the seams around his waist were busted open-- it was a dress suit that could have been fifty or sixty years old, and the material of it was as old and tattered as the piece of thread. The end of it was frayed, so I asked for some scissors. He brought back some brass clippers, I chopped off the frayed end, and looped it through the hole. I don't know if he ever had the chance to sew up his pants.

One time, he told me he was married to a swindler. They set up internet scams and got hundreds and hundreds of dollars from people. They had set up a bank account with more than 80,000. Then one day, he went to withdraw some money and all of it was gone. So was his wife.

"So, I'm stuck here in this hotel." he told me. I acknowledged what he said with the very generic "Well, those things happen," which is probably one of my most used phrases.

But it struck me profoundly.

We mostly talked about food. He would always tell me, "Eat more polenta, very low calorie, very healthy for you. Every morning, I eat a big bowl of polenta or Corn Flakes-- also very low calorie."

One morning, I went into the kitchen to make pancakes. I saw the big bag of polenta sitting on the counter next to a huge box of cornflakes and a couple potatoes. I thought he would be back to collect his food or make a morning meal, but he didn't. Late that night, the food was still on the counter and his room was quiet. I took out my piece of tortilla, weighed my tomato, and slathered it with my wedge of laughing cow cheese -- a staple dinner for myself -- and while I was waiting for the pan to make my tortilla crunchy, I opened the box of corn flakes and munched on a handfull of them.

I thought about the man, how he came to the hotel, how his life was exasperatingly lonely, and how he knew as much about food as me. . . and wondered where he went. The ghostly crunch of the cereal left a sweet taste in my mouth, but my belly was still empty.
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Ode To the Bed Bug [24 Apr 2009|11:37am]
Sssssccchhhpppeeeew SPLAT
GET OUT OF THAT!
And That TOO!

DIE DIE DIE DIE DIE DIE DIE DIE DIE DIE DIE

A bazillion bazookas wouldn't be enough

Go 'head
Play DEAD

I KNOW YOU'RE NOT
You blood-encrusted blot
layin' eggs in my dishes
pots n' pans
electrical cams and
books
cd cases all those places

A universe full of 5 star Hotels
Lucky YOU.

*** Throwing EVERYTHING out this weekend and moving away ****

Here's a list of things I'm keeping:
computer
iPod
clothes
birth certificate
money
fathers ashes
spices
non-perishable food items
dishes without crevaces
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No Parade For Me Today [01 Apr 2009|12:33pm]
When I Phil about the St. Stupid's Day parade, I could tell he just didn't get the sense of humor. Had he thought of the idea, he probably would have gotten the joke, but since he's never been a part of it, or had that kind of idea, there was a certain amount of resistance emanating from him. So of course, he comes up with a thousand things for me to do today and I can't go. Which I feel bad about because SufiMa came out here to see me, and well... I'm stuck here at ArtRock and she's not feeling well.

One of the most annoying things in the world is this thing that Phil does. St. Stupid's Day will always be something that amuses me though. Hopefully, on my way home from work, I'll be able to pick up stray things around the banker's heart. They throw like a million pennies and its awesome when that happens.
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The U.S. Post Office Runs our of $ 2009? [25 Mar 2009|11:08am]
Does anybody else see problems with this issue?
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[25 Mar 2009|09:18am]
"This enzyme is a homodimeric glycoprotein that hydrolyses the terminal alpha-galactosyl moieties from glycolipids and glycoproteins. It predominantly hydrolyzes ceramide trihexoside, and it can catalyze the hydrolysis of melibiose into galactose and glucose."

I'm trying to decipher this, but can't stop laughing. I try not to laugh, but every time I get to "glycolipids" I start to laugh. Not because there's anything funny about glycolipids, but just the fact that its only one word between "alpha-galactosyl moieties" and "glycoproteins."

Words I don't fully understand in this passage:

homodimeric
glycoprotein
alpha-galactosyl
moieties
glycopids
ceramide
trihexoside
melibiose
galactose

This makes it hard for me to comprehend what the hell is going on.
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Variety [20 Mar 2009|10:10am]
Variety is important at work. You don't have to change your work, but I think its important to change tiny things every once in a while so you don't get bored.

Today, I'm watching Grey's Anatomy (last night's), and its making me really emotional. I'm also working on spreadsheets. So, I'm working, and I'm enjoying work.

Okay, just thought I'd throw that in there.

Who the F made Grey's Anatomy? Its like the saddest show EVER.
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He's a Character [17 Mar 2009|01:02pm]
And I watch him every day. My 1PM special. I've written about him before, but he's just so interesting to watch! Today, he wore gray pants, scuffed at the bottom and a big baggy purple shirt with huge glowering cartoon eyes. Over the shirt, he had a gray leopard hoodie that may or may not have been slightly furry. Always there in his Buddy Holly glasses. He squints at everything. Today he was sucking a Starbucks strawberry smoothie thing and he flagged down the 70 Bus going to Novato.

He's guarded. But why? I wonder, wonder why.
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Sign Language [17 Mar 2009|12:54pm]
Last night, my boss at One of a Kind took me out for Sushi at Drunken Sushi. We had this delicious tofu that only had 17 calories per ounce, and pickled vegetables which only had 5 calories for the whole bowl. These items together were more than $20. It tasted good though.

Anyway, after sushi, Bruce drove me home. There were two people at the bus stop signing to each other. One guy looked like he was tripping hard, and the other girl was spinning in circles with her arms spread out. I think he told her he loved her, because he grabbed her in the middle of spin and hugged her close. It looked like he signed, "I love you."

Anyway... I hope I don't have to work here until 4:30. IT feels like there's nothing to do. I had a 1/2 day today already, but my boss is the work-a-holic so whatever. blah. boring days make me snore.
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So... [16 Mar 2009|07:48pm]
I'm standing at the bus stop. Its low puffy gray outside, kind of cold, but I just finished exercising so I'm not. I've got to pee, and I'm waiting so I don't have to walk all the way to Ghirardelli Square. I'm also munching on a portabello mushroom (I got a small bag from Safeway for 1.60) and this dude who totally has vampire teeth is just watching me in an uber creepy way. He's just staring at me, gobling up this mushroom and finally he asks, "Is that any good?"

I said, "Yep, I love portabellos."

"You know how they're made, right?" All snotty and ugh.

"Pretty much," I said. Munch munch munch.


"They grow in cow feces and horse manure." He says this like I shouldn't be eating them, but I don't give a flying pig's butt where they're grown. They're yummy and fill my belly so there.


"That's nice," I said. Then the bus came, I got on, and he just watched me. Even as the bus was rolling away, he was still watching me.

People in this city are weird.
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Soooooo Hungry! [13 Mar 2009|02:38pm]
And my boss is gone with Joe.

And I'm here all alone with six cents and NADA else. Where did they go? How long will they be gone? I could chew my arm and

cant concentrate.

Can't think straight.

But I can blog. I've been blogging on Livestrong.com like crazy; mostly about my food obsessions, exercise regimes, and strange food binges. Guess you could say I'm working on my body.

About a week and a half ago, I got down to 128 pounds (with all my clothes/tennis shoes/iPod/belt/wallet) and kind of like freaked out. I haven't been this thin since the ***** days. And I think I'm going to get thinner because I keep doing what I do.

But, for a week-and-a-half, I exercised less (the shock absorbers on my running shoes are totally destroyed anyway), and I ate a little more (around 1400 calories), and my weight stayed the same.

So, now, I'm cutting back on calories and exercising more (I'm getting new running shoes today).

The only thing about this is that I'm starving right now. Its important for me to eat food all day or I get weird in the brain. And I can't buy food because the lack-of-money thing, and my boss isn't here to sign my check and when he gets back I'm leaving ArtRock; cashing my check; and going to the P.O. I'm leaving early today. Hopefully!
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Slight Lead Poisoning? [08 Mar 2009|01:59pm]
I don't know. I think I may have had slight lead poisoning. I accidently ingested some paint that chipped off an old Chinese tea cup, and I got sick, sick, sick. Not sick like throwing up, but internally, painfully sick. After I ate out of the dish, and the spoon scraped the side in a weird way, I started to feel like I had ate something WRONG.

Over the next 12 hours, every single muscle in my body was throbbing from the inside out. It hurt to walk. I dragged myself to work yesterday and couldn't think straight at all. It was bad. I thought maybe I was coming down with something and drank a bunch of fresh squeezed lemon juice along with tons of tangerines. After work, I rode on the bus and every time my heart pumped blood through my veins, my body pulsed with pain. It was hard to move my fingers.

Around 4 in the afternoon, I started to think back on what I had eaten with and remembered the night before I used my Chinese stuff. A tiny, tiny spoon and a small tea. The spoon had some paint on it as well as the tiny tea cup.

So I was really stupid for using these utinsils, and completely forgot about the dangers of eating out of painted plates from China. Today, I am feeling a little better, but the muscles in my arms are still a little weak, but at least my body's not in agony like it was yesterday.

I don't know what else could cause this. It was weird.
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Yadda yadda yadda ya [06 Mar 2009|12:53pm]
I'm not really working but I'm at work.
I feel like rebelling cause' I wasn't supposed to be here today!
Aaaah, I'm like wasting time and feel kinda weird about doing it but so what?!?

Last night, the BF took me to see Coraline. I loved that movie so much that I don't even know what to do about it.

Do you think the actors in the Harry Potter movie will be FOREVER screwed for playing those characters? Their entire lives have revolved around playing those characters and I wonder how it will impact the rest of their lives.

Why don't restaurants post the calorie content of their food?
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The ArtRock Kitty is Meowing Again [05 Mar 2009|11:34am]
She's so cute! I love when Phil brings her to work.

Today is a spreadsheet day, so my thoughts are something like this: 690000, NR013, 65GDACID, 67JOINTSHOW, 690129PR, and so forth and so on.

I'm finally weighing in the 120's! With just eating and exercise!

yesterday, I went crazy with the PB2 and the Better N' Peanut butter, but today I'm back on track.

My face is sagging a little bit... but I hope that my skin eventually shrinks around my face again. I'm wearing 2 bras today because I noticed my breasts were starting to be a little droopy due to the constant use of sports bras.

OK, sorry if that was TMI for you, but its my life so BLAH.
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Really funny Video [04 Mar 2009|09:00pm]


This is a really funny video about love.
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Don't know [04 Mar 2009|03:01pm]
The boyfriend showed me this very touching claymation movie on YouTube last night. He didn't like it so much, but I haven't been able to stop thinking about it.

I haven't done a thing for the past 15 minutes because I'm waiting to do a spreadsheet, and I think everybody forgot that I'm supposed to do it. If I can just hold out until 4PM, then things will be good.

Maybe I can go to the bank today and leave in a couple minutes. That would be optimal. We have about 8,000 to deposit in the bank and it closes at 4.

. . . customer
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It Wants To Rain [03 Mar 2009|04:14pm]
But it isn't raining. It's been raining on and off all day. I ran in the rain this morning to ArtRock.

I feel like I'm in a time warp right now. Time is S-L-O-W-L-Y creeping by. Its only 2:45 and I feel like it should be around 4:30. Not sure how long we're staying at ArtRock.

The meeting is supposed to take place today.

Oh! I was looking for a raincoat at T.J. Max and stumbled upon on this gormet flavored coffee! Yay. For $1 per bag. I bought all of them. Now I've got cinnamon (somethin I've been wanting for months), pumpkin spice (a favorite of mine), creme bruelee (how could that taste bad?), and Mississippi Mud Pie. These are organic flavored coffee blends and I have them. I will not have to buy coffee for the next... ??? Long, long, time.

Back in the day, I was a coffee snob. And only drank the pure stuff black. Now, I have fun with it. A little milk, some good flavor, a dash of cinamon, I'm good to go! Its super yummy, and like drinking hot chocolate without all the gloop.

UPS is holding my package at the customer service center. They said to pick it up between 7:30 and 9:00 PM, but I can't pick it up today because I told the boyfriend I'd be home between 6:30 and 7:00 PM. Hopefully, the package will wait.

anyways.

This is what I see: a glass mug stuffed with black sharpies, red graphite pencils, and grip easy sticks.
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I was Just an Asshole [03 Mar 2009|04:13pm]
For judging her before...

She looked like all the rest of them, but she wasn't. I feel bad about it.
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Tweak Says, "Feed Me!" [27 Feb 2009|12:24pm]
And now he says, "Anxiety is freedom."

Both of these phrases apply directly to me right now, as I have been completely obsessing over food/caloric intake/exercise with The Daily Plate. That website feeds my addictive nature in an almost completely wrong way.

But!!! Since I started tracking what I eat, I noticed that A. I quit drinking diet sodas, B. Quit eating a buttered croissant for breakfast every morning, and C. have been preparing my own food and eating much, much, more wholesome things.

I have also developed a mini-obsession with low calorie peanut butter (PB2 and Better N' Peanut Butter)... This is from the sandwich my boss brought in for me over a month ago. It was simple: Whole grain bread, peanut butter, and blueberries. It was the best sandwhich in the entire world, and I have wanted one every single day but wasn't able to make one because...

the calorie content for said sandwhich was like 300 (and it was only 1/2 a sandwhich!)

So, I scourged the internet and found PB2 and Better N' Peanut butter.

Okay. This post is the reason I haven't been writing in here lately. My food/exercise obsession isn't like a permanent thing. I'm only doing it until eating the right things and eating the right amount of things becomes second nature.

Today is going to be an easy work day. Like really, really easy.
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